ARIES  {March 21 - April 20} :  Your biggest obstacle is that the only thing you find interesting to talk with others about is YOU.  Drop the I-Me-Me-Me song and start talking about the other person.  Part of a good relationship mean being heard and if you were to be honest, you’d know that your lover or previous lovers felt unheard.  You are quick-witted and sometimes think you know what he or she is going to say before they say it.  Stop interrupting and listen. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 4, 7, 51, 50 40, 31   

TAURUS  {April 21 to May 21} : You have strong convictions in what you know and believe, which your lover enjoys.  But your slowness in making a decision drives them crazy.  To relieve the stress of your partner, tells him or she that you’ll think about it and get back to them with an answer.  Preferably the same day!  Because you are so fixed in your beliefs, you may have trouble hearing others who don’t share the same convictions.  It’s a big world full of many views.  Lighten up. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 45, 14, 21, 12, 8, 6 

GEMINI  {May 22 -June 23} : Happy birthday, you social butterflies!  The angels danced the day you were born.  One of your biggest obstacles in communication is gossip.  Don’t say anything behind someone’s back that you wouldn’t say to their face.  And while you’re standing around the office water cooler, don’t put up with anyone else gossiping maliciously either.  The old saying is true, “If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”  This month’s goal - listen as much as you speak. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 22, 16, 8, 4, 6, 12

CANCER  {June 24 - July 23} : The family communication skills you grew up with may no longer be relevant today.  This month take a careful look at how you learned to exclude others who were not in your special circle.  Perhaps you shut down & wouldn’t look them in the eye.  There’s a tendency for Cancer’s to lean toward exclusivity and ignore those who don’t fit their criteria.  For you, the world can be your family.  Not all Cancer’s put down roots and kept them with their family of origin.  Don’t repeat the same mistake with your lover. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 7, 5, 4, 13, 11, 16  

LEO  {July 24 - August 22} : Louder is not better.  Save your shouting for the stage and ball park.  While you may enjoy maintaining leadership in your love life, your goal is to learn to speak lovingly to your partner.  This means not shouting and hearing with words of love.  One of the best insights you can learn in communicating with others is that most arguments stem from fear.  Your job is to learn to speak from a loving space and be patient enough to hear your lover’s point of view.  Just because he or she disagrees with you does not mean they don’t love you. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 45, 47, 20, 29, 13, 6 

VIRGO  {August 24 - September 22} : You never miss a trick.  For you listening and reading between the lines is more important than what your lover actually says.  However, your need for perfection makes it hard for you to forgive your sweetie’s mistakes.  Throw perfection out the window.  It doesn’t exist.  Instead, talk things over together when there’s problems and learn from your mistakes.  Both of you.   There’s a fabulous group out there called MARRIAGE BOOT CAMP that probably has many Virgo’s as its counselors.  They hear things most people miss and are very solutions oriented. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 16, 12, 9, 8, 40, 50

LIBRA  {September 23 - October 23} : All you’ve ever wanted in your communication with your lover is grace, beauty, kindness and good manners.  You have a kind and gentle heart and when things get ugly verbally, you find it disgusting.  Sometime, in the name of peace, you’ll give up your own convictions just to get along with your honey.  The danger of that, however, is that you start to feel like a doormat and blame him or her.  The truth is, you need better boundaries and an agreement to moderate the voice levels and take turns talking and listening.  Don’t be bullied in your communication.  You’re a smart cookie and must learn to stand up to the steam rollers. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 19, 27, 17, 31, 30, 28 

SCORPIO  {October 24 - November 22} : Communication is not a tool to control others.  Shocking, but true!  You’re known to stop speaking entirely or, on the flip side, hog the conversation until you wear your lover out.  Come on, grow up!  No one loves more deeply or passionately than you, so why would you jeopardize a good thing by bullying someone you’re supposed to love?  Instead of trying to power over your lover, use your extensive healing gifts to solve the problem.   For every difficult area in your relationship, there is a solution.  Your all or nothing attitude is not helping. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 55, 57, 19, 30, 16, 12 

SAGITTARIUS  {November 23 - December 21} : OMG, when will you ever learn to keep your foot out of your mouth?  Just because it’s true does not mean you have to speak every single thought that comes into your head.  Learn a little discretion.  Your lover may or may not be ready to hear the TRUTH, AS SAGITTARIUS SEES IT.  Instead, if you’ve got something to say that may hurt his or her feelings, learn to slow down and say it this way, “When you...., I feel....I would feel better if instead you would....   So simple.  No blaming.  No hurt feelings and your foot gets to stay on the ground where it belongs. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month :  4, 12, 18, 48, 6, 13

CAPRICORN  {December 22 - January 20} : Stop talking about your work.  Your lover wants to hear that he or she looks good, or smells good, or cooked a nice meal.  Get into bed and start talking about why you first fell in love with each other.  Capricorns are known as the stuffed shirts of the zodiac.  Harumph, harumph.  You have great business communication skills, but you really need to stop bringing your work talk into your cozy bedroom love nest.  Because you have great observation skills, you know what you love about your partner.  Now you just have to get the words out of your mouth and into their ear. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 4, 1, 22, 29, 19, 11 

AQUARIUS  {January 21 - February 19} : Do people say your ideas are strange or unusual?  Well, they are.  You guys and gals are the brainiacs of the zodiac and I hear “Smart” is the new turn on.  So, communicate to your lover about such odd things as what it would be like to have sex onboard a UFO.  You look for a love partner who can keep up with you intellectually.  Brainstorming is a real turn on for you but beware a tendency to intellectualize your love relationship and remember to include some feelings in your communication.  Feelings, you know, like happy, sexy, excited, comfortable.  Those are FEELING words.  Learn some. 

Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 60, 54, 57, 34, 29, 8

PISCES  {February 20 - March 20} : You are the zodiac’s psychic lover.  Frequently you think words are unnecessary.  You would prefer to merge auras and automatically assume your lover knows what you’re thinking about.  They may or may not.  Instead, try to speak the words of love which are so universal and spiritual that sometimes it’s hard to give a voice to them.  Try anyway.  For you, your gift to a marriage or relationship is to bring into awareness the spiritual or soul connection between two people.  Your love world is gossamer and imagination-filled.  Fantasy is your middle name. 

Your Personal Lucky Numbers For This Month : 14, 55, 12, 3, 9, 5